Many naturist organizations offer "non-landed" memberships—clubs that meet at rented pools, spas, or homes. In the post-COVID era, many also offer online meetups or "intro to naturism" Zoom calls. You can attend fully clothed, ask questions, and see that the members are ordinary, friendly people. The American Association for Nude Recreation (AANR) and the International Naturist Federation (INF) are reputable starting points.
This is like saying, "I could never go to the gym—I'm so out of shape." The gym is the solution, not the prerequisite. Likewise, naturism is for people who want to heal their body image, not for those who have already perfected it. Most seasoned naturists will tell you they started because they felt the most shame. They stayed because the shame evaporated. purenudism junior miss nudist beauty pageant exclusive